Daily Archives: January 28, 2014

Book: No More Mr Nice Guy

no moreAfter retelling my impressions about the thing to something around 30+ people, putting a short teaser here to make the world happier.

Target audience:

  • those considering others needs more important than theirselves(bothe male/female)
  • unhappy/sex deprived
  • just curious folks : )

The premise: 

nice guys have been conditioned by their childhoods and by society to believe that they will be successful only if they make everyone happy and never cause any problems for others. However, this desire for approval results in self-loathing. In other words, nice guys want approval, but don’t think they deserve it. This creates internal frustration, since nice guys never try to obtain what they want in life. In addition, the nice guy’s desire to obtain approval from everyone (especially women), causes him to actually behave in very un-nice ways. This includes dishonesty (about themselves) and passive-aggressive behavior (“being unavailable, forgetting, being late, not following through…”). (c) Wikipedia

Practical advice:

  • Hang out with people of your gender more
  • Tell the truth/act as you like even if it’s ‘unpleasant’ one
  • Satisfy your needs first(especially about sex)

My result:

  • Dramatically increased motivation/energy level
  • Improved sexual life