Although some of my excitement about going to bars alone is related to experimentation, a large enough part is just fear of staying alone. So this particularly promising Friday I’ve stayed at home and did NOTHING: no music, no reading, just sitting and observing my thoughts and feelings.
Recently read Illusions by R. Bach is probably the most contributing factor to blame : ) I particularly loved idea of human magnets, which suggests to:
- Stop doing common nonsense(in my case it’s going to bars as I’m yet to discover what do I love about them)
- Be selfish: do stuff you’d like to do
- Enjoy some loneliness, knowing that ‘my’ people gonna appear around at some point
- . . .
- Profit !
P.S. As it’s bar alone project, I had a nice collections of drinks in my apartment, which all survived through the night untouched – not every visit to a bar is about getting wasted, that’s probably the next thing to try : )